Your friend has been through an emotionally painful experience.
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The trauma of a sexual assault does not go away quickly.
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Be patient and understanding.
Your friend may act differently after the assault.
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Some of your friend’s reactions may be hard to watch, but you’re “being there” for your friend can help a lot.
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For more information on common reactions, so to the Counseling Centers website at: http://www.buffalostate.edu/counselingcenter
What you can do to help
If the assault just occurred ---
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Make sure she is safe.
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Offer to stay with her or call someone she wants to stay with.
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Help her get the medical attention she needs.
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Offer to call for rape advocate services. You or she can request advocate services through the Care Line (716)878-6889.
If the assault occurred some time ago ---
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Encourage your friend to make her own decisions and choices. This is one way for a sexual assault victim to regain a sense of personal power and control.
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Offer to accompany her to get help, such as medical care, an evidentiary examination, counseling, or other services.